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After Three Years With Him, He Told Me He’ll Convince One Of His Friends To Marry Me- Lady NarratesIn December 2018, I met Nii on a project I was working on. I was 34 years then. He is ten years older than me. Even though the age gap was wide, I didn’t feel it in our interactions. Our conversations were mostly casual until he proposed to me in January 2019 to Marry Me. I gave it a lot of thought and figured a man his age will be serious when it comes to love and relationships. I told myself, “He is 44. At this age, he won’t be interested in playing games. Let me give him a chance and see how far we can go.”

Before I accepted his proposal, I asked about his intentions and he said, “I love you. Haven’t you noticed how I’m always looking for reasons to talk to you? I want to get to know you and love you the way a queen deserves to be loved.” His words were intense. He said nothing wrong and touched on everything I loved to hear from a man. He sounded genuine, so I agreed to be his girlfriend.

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This man would ask me random questions about the type of wedding I wanted, and I would tell him. It got to a point, it was no longer my wedding plans but our wedding plans. He was always the one who led such conversations about weddings and marriage. Sometimes he would say random things like, “I met this caterer who makes good food at affordable rates. I’m thinking we should hire her for our reception.”

We planned everything in detail. We talked about where we would live after the wedding and even talked about the number of children we would have. We picked names for our unborn children. We built a family in the air hoping one day we could bring it down and live it the way we had carefully planned it. We were both adults with stable finances so I believed it was just a matter of time before our plans come alive.

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One day I woke up feeling out of sorts. I did everything to feel normal again but nothing worked. At first, I thought it was fatigue but the symptoms persisted the more I rested. My mind run over a lot of possibilities until it settled on the most palpable one. I took a test and discovered that I was pregnant. It didn’t scare me. The man responsible was Nii so why should I have fear or confusion?

I told Nii that I was pregnant and the show he put up got me knackered. “This is not the right time to get pregnant Aku. Is that the plan? To get pregnant at this time and bring all our plans to waste? No, we can’t have it. We cannot do anything outside the scope of our plans.” I responded, “I didn’t commit a crime. I’m only pregnant so why are you making it look like I killed someone? It’s life I’m going to bring forth and we are capable. We should be happy.”

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Nii insisted. I even told him I would take care of the child without him but he wouldn’t have any of it. He used emotional blackmail and all sort of tricks to get me to do it. It was heartbreaking. I cried until my eyes turned red but there was nothing I could do. The harm had already been done. That should have been the moment I walk away from the relationship but I stayed. My heart held onto the thought of a better future so I stayed with him.

In all our time together, he never gave me anything. No gifts, no money, no surprises. Not even on my birthdays. He always told me he forgot it was my birthday. On the other hand, I always went out of my way to give him gifts and planned surprises for him on his birthdays. One day he gave me an infection. That’s the only gift I can confidently say he gave me. I treated the infection with my own money. I still stayed with him. And then he told me, “We should try as much as possible to keep the relationship a secret. I don’t like people probing into my issues. I like things to be private, that’s who I am.”

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All the signs were there but I was too wrapped up in love and promises that I failed to see the impending disaster.

In October 2021, I needed financial assistance. I needed help to pay my school fees so I asked Nii for a loan. I told him I would pay it back at the end of the month and he agreed to help. Two weeks later he called to tell me he forgot I asked him for money. Luckily for me, I had asked a friend of mine so I no longer needed his help. That was the last time I asked him for anything.

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He stopped communicating with me the way he used to. I asked if something was wrong and he said no. Something was wrong and I could feel it. In February 2022, I asked him; “Are you dating someone else apart from me?” His answer was, “Yes, I am. Why are you asking me? I thought you knew.” “You’re playing with me, right? We’ve been together for three years Nii, how can you tell me you thought I already knew?” He shrugged as if what he told me was something normal. To make matters worse he said, “You are a good woman so I won’t leave you hanging. I am talking to one of my friends to marry you. He will be a good husband, trust me. Just give me some time to finalize the arrangements with him.”

It didn’t feel real. The insults, the pain, the disrespect, they were too painful to believe they were true but Nii wobbled around as if I was a little girl he met not too long ago. My only response was, “I’m done but you’ll pay for it.”

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I call one of my girlfriends and recounted everything I’d been through to her. She said, “Sis, you should have spat on his face.” Actually, I should have. I don’t know why I stood there and watched him tell me all that without reacting.

A month later he sent me a text telling me he missed me. Whoever gave that audacity to some men ought to answer to humanity. What? Not even an apology. If I told him what was on my mind, he would have burnt the sea but I restrained myself. I said, “I am no longer the woman you took for a fool. Just leave me alone.”

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In April this year, I saw his wedding video on a friend’s WhatsApp status. If I thought I’d healed, that video proved to me that It takes longer to heal than I thought. I was hurt all over again. I watched the video and cursed him for all the pains he brought into my life. May he experience the same pain so he would know how it hurts.

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The Side Effects of Moringa You Must Know Before it’s too Late » Loversify

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Moringa Seed, Powder and Root side Effects? You are about to know.

Info: This is why those using Moringa Oleifera have to slow down before it will be too late to do so.

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It is no more news that Moringa is taking the lead (or something close) of herbs used to cure many diseases and one which helps stay healthy, in recent times. Called the tree of life, Moringa Oleifera is a plant that would whet your mental appetite regarding its health benefits.

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It has helped many Obese in losing weight. Many diabetes and arthritis patients among many others have benefitted from the potency of this miracle plant. Isn’t it worth a rapturous applause? But, while we perpetually celebrate the untold healing it has wrought in the lives of many, shouldn’t we look into its side effects? Or does it have no side effects at all? Read on to know!

It’s not even a new thing to see both the young and the old venturing into the business of selling both its seed and leaves to earn living. To say the least, some people make fortunes out of this miracle tree!

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But, it’s more than that. The madness that people have developed concerning this plant is something we all need to take a closer look at. It’s worth the prying eyes of anyone who is known to be their brother’s keeper and of course, everyone that really needs to live longer.

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When it comes to mental marketing, I have not seen a country as good as Nigeria. Let there be a news on the major television stations today that, “Eating one’s faeces and drinking one’s urine following, is a way to immortalize oneself;” don’t be surprised when you see your great grandmother being the first to use it.

You heard that Moringa’s seed, leaves and root are all you need to keep you healthy, and the next you do is to be taking seven of its seeds at a time without consulting medical practitioners – even common sense – to help in the usage?

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It is questionable how Nigerians take news and attend to things that are in vogue. Oh! I wouldn’t fail to mention the last one that happened. It was during the Ebola outbreak. On just hearing that taking salt water was a preventive measure to take, some bathe, brushed, wiped their buttocks, and sniffed with salt water. Many did so much unimaginable things with the use of salt and some were left dead when the effect of “the salt we take every day” manifested on their bodies.

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Who would have thought that common salt that is part of almost everything we take on daily basis could be the reason behind some people’s death? I sigh.

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Before we continue, allow me to tell you little about myself…

I am a Nigerian. And a proud one at that. Hey! I didn’t mean I am proud; I mean I am proud to be a Nigerian. Thanks for your understanding. Smiles.

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I am in my early thirties and I remember I have been in the hospital twice in my life: the first time (1997), I ate poisoned food and the second (2007), I had a cut on my left eyebrow (can you see it from there?) which needed to be sutured. To be factual, my only sickness is headache. And whenever I have that, I only need to sleep and that’s the end. I don’t take any drugs!

So, talking about sound health, I am one who needs to thank God. I know what it is to have gotten that much grace. Read more about me here.

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But I know people who are in serious mess…

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And it’s deeper when it is congenital or hereditary.

While it’s still valid that health is wealth, we cannot jettison the fact that the race to stay healthy is not one that needs to be run at just few paces – even if you have Usain Bolt’s gene in your system.

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To stay healthy is a lifetime core course and one that nobody needs to fail!

But it is so unfortunate how we do things wrong. So tragic and alarming how we are the undoing of ourselves in the bid to stay healthy.

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Now back to the matter!

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Yes, Moringa! Moringa, its magnanimous help and the unheeded side effects on the human body.

I met a woman earlier this year who narrated the ordeal of a man to me.

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The old man had developed a critical health condition that needed to be attended to, and then this woman was contacted.

She just came and began to deliver some lectures about the use and side effects of Moringa since it was what the man suspected.

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The man felt like jumping out of his skin when the woman told him certain amount of Moringa could create holes on the user’s body.

The woman was on point! The man opened up his side where good number of black spots had developed with enough itchy discomfort on the part of the body…

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Wait! Don’t panic… Let us talk about this. And we will do that here, and now!

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The Truth About Moringa

What does it really do?

Let me be fast about this.

Let me call Moringa a know-it-all herb. To be factual, Moringa is a must-have herb for every home because its nutritional benefits are just almost innumerable; there are enough claims to that.

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It has enough Vitamin A which helps improve your sight (your eyes); it raises your immunity; it decongests your body of toxins; it helps in water purification; it boosts your energy level; it helps to aid digestion; it helps to hype up your mood; it keeps your blood pressure normal; it helps proper functioning of your immune system; it’s a good treat for stomach ulcer; it helps in the treatment of stomach lining and more than a pill to cure cancer – I can’t tell it all!

In fact, this guy says the Moringa plant has 30 benefits for skin and hair health.

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Watch the video below to see all!

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The Tree of Life: Moringa Oleifera the Miracle Tree from therealtreeoflife on GodTube.

Also see the images below for more nutritional facts of Moringa Leaves and Seeds

 MoringaSource : millennialherbs.com

moringa nutrientSource: Myheathfood2u.com


How do you feel about this plant now? Like going to start planting and selling? Good.

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But let us talk about something more – it’s side effects!

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So, does Moringa has side effects? If yes, what are the side effects of Moringa?

The woman I talked about earlier said, “Since Moringa has a considerable dose of antibiotics, too much of it is not good for the body. Because, the moment you have too much of antibiotics in your body system, they join in fighting your system after killing all they were administered to kill.”

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She also said, “Moringa is rich in Sulphur and not everybody is okay with it; some are allergic to Sulphur. Too much of Moringa will perforate your body internally. It will create black spots on your body that will be giving you some itchy discomfort.”

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Let us see some more.

According to this research, Moringa is said to be safe when used in an appropriate manner and administered orally. Its fruits, seeds and leaves are also safe when eaten in moderate amounts as foods. However, eating the root and its extracts could be a looming danger to the body. This is no other reason than, these parts of the plant contains enough toxic agents capable of causing paralysis and even worst, death. So, to use Moringa, make sure you follow prescriptions of someone that really know about this plant.

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Here Comes the Bomb: the Special Warnings and Precautions!

Caution for Pregnant women:

It’s LIKELY TO BE DANGEROUS to take the bark, the flowers or the root of Moringa when a woman is pregnant. Because, the chemicals in the mentioned parts of the tree could make the uterus contract, which might cause miscarriage for the pregnant woman.

However, there is no substantial information about the safe usage of other parts of Moringa; but it is advisable to stay out of it during pregnancy. Only use it on your doctor’s prescription.

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Caution for breastfeeding Women:

Since Moringa is often times used to boost breast milk production, some research assume it might do this to a nursing-mother; though there is no concise information to help whether it is safe for the baby. So, isn’t it worth the halt when a woman is breastfeeding? Make sure you use any drugs or herds per doctor’s prescription; avoid self-medication.

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Let us see some more.

Hear this…

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Moringa’s side effects are not widely known but on the occasion that someone did take it all wrong. Its effects come unaided when one starts to take too much of it.

Moringa is not a fix-it-all for your hearth challenges, even if it has all the potency to keep you healthy over the time. Everyone has accustomed time it would take Moringa to adapt to their body system. It is therefore imperative to use this plant per body system to gain its benefits. Rushing it in is dangerous!

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In addition…

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Feeling nauseous following the intake of Moringa is a proof that you have taken too much of it; having runny stomach from the intake of Moringa is another proof that you have taken more than normal dose.

And this… Heartburn:

Taking Moringa with little or no water can readily give you a heartburn. So, take with as much water your stomach can carry. No! I didn’t mean you should take a gallon of water.

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Even this…. Blood Thickening:

Moringa, like every other green plants used as food, thickens the blood. A caution for those on blood-thinning medication.

Note: Don’t eat many of the seeds at a time! Take it little by little. Like no one can burn all the fats in their body in a day, don’t try to use Moringa as a shortcut to having the healthy condition you desire. Failure to adhere to this caution is hundred times dangerous to your health.

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“If you must ignore the look of a town crier, never ignore his message.”

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“A word is enough, they say, for the wise!”

But… I thought you would ask this question?

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How much of Moringa should I take?

The Moringa seed:

It is recommended that you take a seed of Moringa at a time if you are just starting to eat it. After a while, you can increase it to two seeds at a time. But, never let your appetite drive you to take more than four in a day! That is not a typo! Don’t take more than maximum of four (4) seeds in a day. Eh! You are still asking why? Just follow that for now.

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The Moringa Tea or Powder:

It is recommended to start with half of a teaspoon daily for three (3) to five (5) days and increase this to just one teaspoon on the sixth (6th) day. You can take two spoons per day if you are very healthy, two teaspoons daily is okay. And after two weeks, you can take a bit higher than two spoons, but not like 10! Three to four is okay, and even with that you need to pay attention to how your body reacts to it. And the moment you sense any irrational feelings, slow things down. Yes… Down. Like D for Door, O for Orange, W for Water and N for Nose; D-o-w-n!

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It is better you take this with breakfast and not advisable you take it on an empty stomach except prescribed by a medical practitioner.

More so, you can take it on the particular time of the day that you need it most: you can take it to aid digestion either in the morning, afternoon or at night, depending on your body system and feelings. Never take it because you saw Tom and Jerry taking it every now and then in the cartoon.

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Let me also remind you to wash your hand with soap regularly, especially after visiting the toilet. Won’t you say thank you for that? Smiles.

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My Final Advice for You

Be careful who you buy from if you can’t make the tea on your own. Buying from someone who is after your money and not your health will only cost you troubles. I even suggest you learn how to make the tea yourself. Don’t buy Moringa tea from all these “E de kill this, e dey kill that people;” don’t buy from just anyone. Make sure you buy all you take into your mouth from qualified sellers! Should I prostrate on that? Here I go.

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Now the ball is in your court. Should we save lives together or watch people die of ignorance?

Don’t let your neighbour be a victim of this!

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Before you start with todays work, is good you commit your work in God hands. Pray for better Ideas that will bring about success at your place of work. come against every power that will hinder your promotion at your place of work. Hence, here is a powerful prayer before work video for you.

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